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Post by skytracker on Jun 17, 2009 12:34:32 GMT -6
Dear...Everyone.
It has recently been brought to my attention that I've been harassing members. Since I don't mean to be such a bitch, and I don't have a clue who I harassed, I'm gonna apologize...like this.
If I've ever been a total bitch to you, please read this whole message, top to bottom. If you're one of the lucky ones who haven't seen my bitchy side, then read this and laugh at how uncomfortable I am.
Ok...
I'm sorry. I swear I don't mean to come across hateful, or anything. I was one of the first members on the site, and I'm fairly active, so that gives me a lot of time during the day to be a bitch. Please, if I've wronged you in any way, feel free to use this thread to completely tell me how you feel. If I'm bad enough to verbally harass someone and not remember doing it -- though I have no doubts I did it -- then I deserve to be verbally harassed back. Again, I'm sorry. I'm not a bitch. Well, I try not to be. I know I slip up from time to time. And I'm fairly certain that whoever I chewed out probably thinks I'm pretty low. Forgive me? I'm sorry. I really don't know what else to say.
On another, much less important note...
I'm ashamed to say that I didn't realize this site wasn't run like I run my sites. I have never agreed with being a tattle-tale. So I don't tell. I've never PMed an admin about a problem I'm having with another member. I apologize for having the "If you want something done, do it." mentality, but that's how I was raised. I'll try to be a bit more or less** mature and cause more trouble. I'm sorry Madison. Though I didn't wrong you directly, I see that you are quite displeased with me, and I can't really find the words to apologize. Again, I'm sorry. That's all I can say.
[/color][/blockquote][/blockquote] ~Sky
**"more or less mature"
Some believe that that those with a higher maturity level will tell an authority figure. While others believe those with a higher maturity level will deal with their own problems as they arise.
Since this is an apology letter, I don't want to offend anyone. So I'm being extremely careful. Thank you. |
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Post by iona on Jun 17, 2009 12:39:43 GMT -6
I'll reply since you asked me to. I've never had a problem with you personally, and I honestly can't say that I've seen "the bitchness" in action. But, I think just doing an apology like this is better. At least, whoever felt wronged knows that you are sorry and have taken the extra step to prove it simply by posting this post and that you yourself realize how you may come across to others. The only way to change is to acknowledge that something needs changing. I hope you don't leave the site because of this though.  |
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Post by scarn on Jun 17, 2009 12:42:43 GMT -6
Yes. I agree with... that. 'cause you've been perfectly fine toward me and I really didn't even know you had some sort of... not... nice tendencies. Or something. But yes. I digress. I don't have any sort of problem with you, I think you're very nice and such, I haven't seen you being anything but nice to other people and I don't really know where this is coming from, but! Apologizing like this is a very kudos-worthy thing to do, 'cause it shows you're mature enough to step forward and make ammends to anyone you've annoyed or upset or think you've annoyed or upset. So kudos!
And... I've rambled long enough. Good day!
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Post by dawn on Jun 17, 2009 12:57:07 GMT -6
Iiiii haven't really talked to you very much yet, but anyway I don't ever remember being bitched at by you! And I agree with the above, it's very kudos-worthy to make a public apology like this. |
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Post by lucinda on Jun 17, 2009 13:09:18 GMT -6
Like everyone else here, I have no clue about this bitchy side to you. But it's very mature of you to publicly aplogise. On other sites i've been on, people just tend to leave or carry on with what they're doing, I'm proud of you sister |
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Post by CPT. JAMES T. KIRK on Jun 17, 2009 13:27:06 GMT -6
Ditto what the short hot blonde said two posts up, I don't know if we've even chatted really, (but I think we need to *winkwink*) I think it takes a lot of courage to just come out an confront your issues, and I'm sure that like the others of us who have the ability to be bitchy at times (*coughwhowhame?*) that its far from all you are, and people can just get over it xD You've never done anything to me, and no offense to whoever was hurt, because I am sure you have your legitimate reasons, but I find that often people are too sensative and take the net too seriously. Although then again I am oft called mean and bitchy because I don't put up with anyone who whines >.< (it's something I am working on. That whole 'sensitivity' thing.)
*huggles on you*
(and that was the big picture ladies and gentlemen >.>)
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Post by DR. LEONARD McCOY on Jun 17, 2009 19:18:20 GMT -6
I didn't mean to be cruel to you if I was coming off that way. I've just seen and heard some things that members have said and showed to me. Thank you for the apology, though it wasn't necessary, it was nice and I'm sure that if these people are still around, they will forgive you.
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